Never been in a situation like this. help!?

i am a 19-year-old asian dude, and i went clubbing for the first time with a party animal friend on thursday. I tried to dance with 4 or 5 girls, but they all turned me down. One cute white girl who's my age, however, approached me and showed some interest. When she spotted me, she popped my collar. I thought she was some weirdo and went away. We somehow saw each other again, and this time the girl grabbed my arms, asked me to flex them, and lightly punched my abs. She said, "look at these muscles. are you really asian?" Then our conversation began. She seemed impressed when i showed my school ID. She patted my cheeks with both hands, and said "you smart boy i like you." We then held hands the rest of the time and danced for a while. She was obnoxious at times because she kept asking me to buy her water. When I was about to leave, she pulled me towards her. i didn't wanna get her number or go further because i sorta have a crush on someone at my school, but now i sorta miss her. help!

Never been in a situation like this. help!?
I'd forget about her, do you really want to go out with a girl who might be doing that to tons of other men?


So stay in school, eat your wheaties, and God bless.
Reply:Only thing you can do is to go back to the club and hope to run in to her again.Next time don't punch a gift horse in the mouth.If a hot girl is coming on to you take advantage.
Reply:she actually sounds really annoying.


you probably won't like my advise, but would try to forget her.
Reply:from personal experience i know that you just like the feeling of being wanted being needed but dont worry everyone feels that way your way of easing the pain just spend more time with friends and if fate i meant then you will see her again....but keep up the good work of studying!
Reply:keep in mind she may have been totally drunk. she might do that sorta thing every night, and may not have liked you at all. some girls are like that. im not saying that to bring you down, though. the girl at your school that you like is prolly more respectable than this party girl. you are 19? so in college? ask the one from your school out. get to know her! you gotta have a girlfriend some time or another! dont be scared to be turned down, the right one will come along someday, and the party girl isnt that right one.
Reply:Gosh! She sounds frightening! Sorry to say but she sounds a bit of a tart and you may be seen to be desperate if you see her again.





One thing that does across is that she knows what she likes, and isn't afraid to say so thats commendable!





I'd find someone else if I were you.