i am a 19-year-old asian dude, and i went clubbing for the first time with a party animal friend on thursday. I tried to dance with 4 or 5 girls, but they all turned me down. One cute white girl who's my age, however, approached me and showed some interest. When she spotted me, she popped my collar. I thought she was some weirdo and went away. We somehow saw each other again, and this time the girl grabbed my arms, asked me to flex them, and lightly punched my abs. She said, "look at these muscles. are you really asian?" Then our conversation began. She seemed impressed when i showed my school ID. She patted my cheeks with both hands, and said "you smart boy i like you." We then held hands the rest of the time and danced for a while. She was obnoxious at times because she kept asking me to buy her water. When I was about to leave, she pulled me towards her. i didn't wanna get her number or go further because i sorta have a crush on someone at my school, but now i sorta miss her. help!
It doesn't seem like a right thing to do, but i sorta miss this girl i met at a club. Advice needed!?
You could try going to the club you met her at and see if she is there again. I don't know why you would think she is "obnoxious" for asking your to buy her water. Anyway, you sound really picky and will turn a girl down for pretty much any reason. You finally had a girl show interest in you and you didn't even get her number!!! You need to be more agressive if you want to have a relationship with a girl. I know that a lot of Asian men aren't very agressive, but don't be afraid to ask a girl for their number - it doesn't necessarily mean you are obligated to call them.
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